Unchurched folks like old church architecture

Apparently, unchurched Americans prefer going to medieval-style church buildings instead of contemporary buildings, according to a LifeWay Research survey. This includes utilitarian and/or multi-purpose buildings aiming to be seeker-sensitive. I suppose this means that those seeking God tend to go where they think God might be. Go figure!

I do notice that when unchurched people come into a church sanctuary, they’re a little more quiet, respectful and conscious of things numinous (i.e. the spiritually “other”). This is why I think our wedding ministry is an important outreach to our community that we haven’t fully realized.

New Seven Deadly Sins

You may have heard that the Vatican revised the list of Seven Deadly Sins to emphasize that sin is not just an individual matter but has “social resonance.” The new list is:

  1. Drug abuse
  2. Morally debatable experimentation
  3. Environmental pollution
  4. Causing poverty
  5. Social inequality and injustice
  6. Genetic manipulation
  7. Accumulating excessive wealth

P.J. O’Rourke’s reaction to these new Seven Deadly Sins is hilariously tongue-in-cheek:

Not to argue theology with the Vatican, but environmental pollution is hardly among Satan’s strongest temptations. Pollution is not a passion we resist with an agony of will for the sake of our immortal souls. I’ve been to parties where all seven of the original deadlies were on offer in carload lots. Never once have I heard a reveler shout with evil glee, “Let’s dump PCBs in the Hudson River!” …Unfortunately Bishop Girotti’s late-model sins make as little sense as a Jeremiah Wright sermon. They have no gravitas. Imagine the reaction in the confessional when you say, “Father, I have littered.”

At some point I’ll have to draft up my own list of seven deadly sins. I think “smugness” might be at the top of the list. Kyrie Eleison!

Tired: Good or Bad?

When asked “How are you doing?” the most common answer I hear is “Fine” or “Pretty good.” Can you guess what is the second-most common answer is? People say, “Tired.” Part of the reason I think is that there is a bit of virtue in being tired: “I’ve been working hard” or even “I’m really busy and, therefore, a productive person.”

In response to people saying “Tired,” I’ve been asking recently: Is that a “good tired” or a “bad tired”? After a bit of a pause, the other usually responds, “What’s the difference?”

I think there is a big difference. C.J. Mahaney writes a little about the difference:

There is a difference between being tired and weary. If I am tired, then sleep will bring appropriate refreshment and restore my strength. But if I am weary, sleep will be insufficient.

Mahaney is talking about pastors and ministry, but I’d suggest this is applicable for any believer. “Good tired” comes with a sense of accomplishment and being a part of something larger we think is ultimately worthwhile. “Bad tired” comes from a lack of direction or purpose and cynicism toward ultimate ends. “Bad tired” leads to a circling-of-the-wagons attitude: protect my time and energy at all costs against anything or anyone that would sap it while I do the bare minimum to get my job done.

To discern between between being tired (i.e. “good tired”) and weary (i.e. “bad tired”), Mahaney says (regarding pastors):

So if I was interacting with a pastor, I would want to draw him out about the present state of his soul, the presence or absence of affections and passion for the Savior. And I would want to talk to him about whether ministry is a joy for him at present, or a burden. Is his soul glad, or is his soul weighed down and weary?

For lay persons, I think it is similar. It is about the joy of work and the joy of ministry and cultivating a passion for God’s glory in the midst of it. (To bring work and ministry together, we’ll have to await a more detailed discussion about vocation, work and calling.) In the meantime, I’m a big fan of what Bill Hamel wrote in EFCA Today, Sum 2005 (.pdf):

…I constantly meet believers whose lives are dull, flat and without much spiritual influence. This tells me they have not yet found the joy and intense satisfaction of meaningful ministry. One of the greatest gifts, then, that church leaders can give members of their congregation is helping them discover, test drive and grow in their area of gifting. In fact, the job of pastors is to give ministry away to faithful, gifted people. …In the end, it is about releasing God’s gifts.

How to Pray for Preachers

Justin Childers suggests how to pray for preachers:

  1. During the week, pray for God to reveal the burden of the text to him.
  2. During the week, pray that God would grip the preacher’s heart with His glory revealed in the text.
  3. On Sunday morning, pray that God would free him from distractions.
  4. On Sunday morning, pray that he would proclaim the truth boldly and clearly.
  5. On Sunday morning, pray for God to powerfully speak through him.
  6. On Sunday morning, pray that Christ would be treasured by all gathered.

It would be worth considering how to pray for hearers of preaching. That could be an interesting list. Afterall, preaching involves both speaking and listening. I’d probably start that list with a mediation on Mk 4:9.

“The Absent are Safe Here”

“The Absent are Safe Here” declares a plaque on the living room wall of Robertson McQuilkin, so the story is told by Haddon Robinson (and written about by Ray Pritchard). To deter himself and guests from speaking ill of others behind their back, McQuilkin put the plaque on display to look to when words drifted astray. I especially admire the list of types of negative talk Pritchard gives to avoid:

No cheap shots
No sharing of gossip
No repeating of rumors
No judging of motives
No sharing of details that should remain private
No trash talk
No insinuations
No angry invectives
No making yourself look good at the expense of others
No maximizing the sins of others
No adding aggravating details to make the absent look worse
No dismissing an unkind remark by saying, “I was only joking.”

If we all watched our speech with these rules, I think we’d go quite a way in building a community of trust and grace. I don’t know what McQuilkin’s plaque looked like, but I made a version for my cubicle. If you’d like a .pdf file, let me know.

The Absent are Safe Here - rlew.com

Why pray aloud when God knows our hearts?

David Powlison writes about verbal prayer asking: Should we really call it a “quiet” time?

So the standard practice for both public and private prayer is to speak so as to be heard by the Person with whom you are talking. Prayer is verbal because it is relational.

…I’ve known many people whose relationship with God was significantly transformed as they started to speak up with their Father. Previously, “prayer” fizzled out in the internal buzz of self-talk and distractions, worries and responsibilities. Previously, what they thought of as prayer involved certain religious feelings, or a set of seemingly spiritual thoughts, or a vague sense of comfort, awe, and dependency on a higher power. Prayer meandered, and was virtually indistinguishable from thoughts, sometimes indistinguishable from anxieties and obsessions. But as they began to talk aloud to the God who is there, who is not silent, who listens, and who acts, they began to deal with him person-to-person.

Powlinson surveys Biblical examples of prayer and concludes that contemplative practices like “listening prayer” or “centering prayer” are never taught in the Bible. (“Never” is a bit strong, as he also admits. e.g. Ps. 46:10.)

The main thrust of the article is that “God is profoundly and essentially verbal” because (I would add) God is profoundly and essentially relational. God is not triune to sit in silence with himself. Nor does he speak his Word to us so that we never utter a word to him.

With that being said, silence, reflection and contemplation point us toward prayer. “The true God quiets us so we notice him” (Powlinson, ibid.). Quietness creates a reverent space for us to personally offer to God our heart, building a relationship that he so graciously initiated with us through his first words to us.

Put Fears to Rest

What do you look for when shopping for a bed? Size? Comfort? Cost? How about protection from bio-chemical attack? Bulletproof plating? Intruder proximity detector? For “the safest rest ever,” try the Quantum Sleeper

Safest Bed ever

(I don’t think this is a shipping product.) I don’t mean to make light of people’s fears, but I am amazed at how fear-driven our world has become. C.J. Mahaney writes:

Fears reveal lies and lusts. Fears reveal idols. Fears reveal functional gods. When we submit to fear we submit to a false god rather than serving the God of Scripture, the God we seek to serve.

Mahaney quotes from Edward Welch’s Running Scared: Fear, Worry and the God of Rest (Greensboro: New Growth Press, 2007):

…We know that worry and fear are more about us than about the things outside us. They reveal what is valuable to us, and what is valuable to us in turn reveals our kingdom allegiances. We also know that God is patient and compassionate with us, and he gives grace upon grace. Though alert to our divided allegiances, he persists in calling us away from fear and worry, persuades us of the beauty of the kingdom, and gives more than we can imagine.

I humbly suggest adding this corollary to G.K. Chesterton’s famous line: “When we cease to fear God, we will not fear nothing, we will fear anything.”

“Am I Happy?”

For this past weekend’s Easter service, I was thrilled that Acts of Worship put together a drama. For those not present, it was an encounter between “Justin” and “Michelle” — two contrasting characters bearing a slight resemblance to the sisters Martha and Mary (Lk 10:38-41) except with a few twists to increase both the ambiguity and challenge.

Both are believers, though Justin only nominally so (or at worst, a hedonist). Michelle is a faithful believer, committed to serving (slaving?) at church. By the end of the encounter, Justin declares that he is happy while Michelle is left wondering, “Am I happy?”

While it’s easy to say Justin is misguided — we’ve heard plenty of sermons about that — I’m just as passionate in saying Michelle is misguided as well. (Isa 1:11 echoes here.) Justin seeking pleasure in the world misses his true and lasting joy. Michelle serving the church and yet wondering about happiness also misses her true and lasting joy.

The trick to the drama is the person we don’t see. The missing character in the drama is actually ever-present. Because he is not depicted does not mean he is not there. And because we don’t see him, we open the door to wonder about happiness and joy.

I’m speaking of God, of course. God is the “all-satisfying Object”[1] who, if we lose sight of then questions about happiness or “Is it worth it?” creep in. Losing sight of God or thinking he isn’t in the story drains our joy and hollows out our service. In Martha and Mary’s story, Jesus stands right there and it is plain as day who is in the right place. His presence is all-satisfying and awe-inspiring. We are to bask in him, soak in him and then serve to make him known to anyone with the ears to hear.

This, then, is what this website is all about: To seek a God-entranced Vision of All Things. To lift my dull eyes to see God at the beginning, middle and end of all things. Anything less is just not worth the time.

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[1] John Piper quoting C.S. Lewis in Desiring God.

For Parents of a Prodigal Child

For parents of children who walk away from Christ, John Piper’s son Abraham Piper tells his story and gives sage advice. One suggestion: “E-mail them. When you read something in the Bible that encourages you and helps you love Jesus more, write it up in a couple of lines and send it to your child. The best exhortation—better than any correction—is for them to see Christ’s joy in your life.”

Elements of Spiritual Revival

Have you ever been in a spiritual revival? The word “revival” comes burdened with great expectations and unclear notions of what it actually is. J.I. Packer writes:

“I have witnessed remarkable evangelical advances, not only academic but also pastoral, with churches growing spectacularly through the gospel on both sides of the Atlantic and believers maturing in the life of repentance as well as in the life of joy. Have I seen revival? I think not — but would I know?” [1]

When it comes to “Revival,” some of us expect too little when it comes to God transforming hearts. Perhaps this is due to a lack of faith or the comfort of low expectations. On the other hand, some expect too much drama (for lack of a better word) from God when we speak of revival. Because of such great expectations, we are shy to claim we have experienced revival. Packer continues:

“Touches of reviving, I suspect, surround us, and we are not always aware of them… What is certain, however, is this: God calls us, and wisdom directs us, to seek for ourselves the full reality of religion as [Jonathan] Edwards describes it, and to pray for the further reviving of religion, by God’s grace and for God’s glory, that all our communities have need of at this time.”

To clarify expectations of what is meant by the word “revival,” J.I. Packer summarizes elements of revival as laid out by Jonathan Edwards. I suggest we pray for and aim for these in our ministry:

  1. God comes down (Isa 64:1)
  2. God’s Word pierces (1 Thes 2:13)
  3. Man’s sin is seen (Acts 2:37)
  4. Christ’s cross is valued (1 Cor 1:23-24)
  5. Change goes deep (Acts 19:18-19)
  6. Love breaks out (Acts 2:44-45)
  7. Joy fills hearts (1 Pet 1:8)
  8. Each church becomes itself (1 Cor 12:4-5; 14:24-25)
  9. The lost are found (Acts 2:41, 47; 4:4; 5:14; 6:7)
  10. Satan keeps pace (Eph 6:10-20)

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[1] Jonathan Edward’s list of elements of spiritual revival is from J.I. Packer, “The Glory of God and the Reviving of Religion: A Study in the Mind of Jonathan Edwards” in A God-Entranced Vision of All Things, Crossway 2004)